Who is to Blame?

Have you ever stopped to think about the amount of things that happen in our day to day life over which we have no control? Things over which we have no power nor authority. And the blame really is not ours.

The big question that I want to present today is that many times we make mistakes and we mean that the fault is not ours. For example, if someone spent the night drinking, drove his car and caused an accident, that person is guilty by his actions.

Moreover, we have absolute control over other things. How to choose what to study in college, our friends and the love of our life.

But on the other hand, we do not choose the family into which we are born, our social class, the hometown in which we spent our childhood. We do not choose many things in our lives.

I mean that many things in our lives are under control, then it is essential be the main character in your story.

Often, we are looking guilty for everything we do, someone to serve as a scapegoat. Stop looking for the culprits. Say, I was wrong, it was my fault.

  

Have you noticed that in our day-to-day, we put the blame of our frustrations in God? For example: Could not get a job because God did not quiz. When actually did not get the job because he was not qualified for the job.     

It's time to stop putting the blame on others recognizing our own mistakes. It's time to mature as people. Showing that we are men and women of character. Do not be afraid!

Luís Fernando Bruno

2014