Delusions!

We live in a modern society, where many people have become indifferent, rough or cold because of disappointments suffered in interpersonal relationships. Being trivial, sometimes, we consider a very particular friend or family member and then finish the disillusioned to realize that the person was not anything we imagined.

However, when disappointments occur, we must further examine the situations that made ​​it happen. Disappointed us with people who are in the world, suffering the same shortcomings and misfortunes we. They are not infallible and the simple fact walk beside us now is not enough that the endeusemos, putting them in places of particular importance because they are human beings and subject to errors.

Often, in fact, delusion is our reflection in the mirror, since we are mistaken judgment and evaluation, either by precipitation or by surface analysis of the situation. It behooves us then mature, learning to examine every thing, every specific case, examine ourselves carefully in order to grow personally without the desiludirmos with anything or anyone. We must learn to understand each person individually, after all no one is equal.

Friends, to advance us in our walk uphill, do not expect too much from people. We must accept them as they are, not as they might be fantasizing. Also seek to have a realistic view of our own life, not so confusing reality with imagination and accepting situations that arise. Learn to deal with disappointments, choosing how to meet the expectations that we create ourselves, trying to act so as to overcome any negative situation, because only then can we live better in society.

Luís Fernando Bruno

2013